I'm so lame.

You get way too damn many relationship questions, I know, but I'm going to slap you with another one - one that smells much like a large herring, having lain in the sun for three days.

I have a friend, from another country (speaks very good English, etc.) who's been trying, for months, to set me up with another friend, an American-born, introverted, doesn't talk much even for an introverted individual, and apparently wants my pants on her floor as soon as possible. Both are quite attractive.
However, I seem to have developed these 'feelings' things many people talk about, in the general direction of the former. I doubt she has any idea I feel this way. I am not used to this whole 'relationship development' thing at all; I have no idea what to do.
In the off-chance the question above is not obvious: How would this situation be best resolved?

But that really seems cruel, as the latter apparently genuinely likes me quite a bit.

Doing so in an empty state of being, as you suggest, would affect the both of us profoundly - her for being toyed with so by someone she liked, and myself for treating another living, breathing being as an object for my own pleasure.

Further complications arise, though: She is a genuinely pleasant person, and I think I wouldn't mind being around her a bit more.

That doesn't mean I love her vastly, though.

So, in summation:

1. Sex good.

B. Jedi good.

Zi. Satisfying return of true emotion bad!

I see now. It's all so perfect!